Ask him every so often what he needs help with. What would make him happy when he comes home from work or if he is always home what would he like his “castle” to look like? Men are visual so usually it is something small to us but big to him. For Tim, my husband it is things like, don’t have stuff on the stairs, and please don’t have dirty dishes in the sink. I could care less about those things but for him it is important so I know it is an easy way for me to bless him. Some men just want the sock drawer to be neat, others want the bed made, while others just want a foot rub every night, and some may even want great sex. We will dive into that one on the next post.
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Jen O’Sullivan believes that getting to the root of the problem is vital to full health and utilizes a whole-body system approach of care with her students and customers. She is one of the most followed educators in the aromatherapy world because she is known for her to-the-point style with helpful and logical explanations. She is the author of over 50 books, with nine being Amazon best-sellers. Jen is certified through the School for Aromatic Studies in French Medicinal Aromatherapy, holds a degree in Naturopathy from the UK Centre for Excellence, and is certified as a Master Trainer as a Vitality Lifestyle Coach. Jen has been a professional educator since 1999, at both the collegiate and high school levels. She has a desire to help educate anyone interested in holistic health and wellness through natural wellness products and lifestyle changes.
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2 Replies to “Helper”
My husband ask that the kitchen table is cleaned off. It’s a catch all and clutter drives him nuts. As a stay at home mom, I’ve been struggling with PPD. (Give me ALL the Valor) As the day goes by, I realise that I haven’t done anything and I’m still exhausted. I strive to be that 50’s wife in pearls and heels -well at least be able to get a shower that day. I’d love to be enthusiastic about house work and relieve his stress from it. Pray as I overcome this obstacle.
Absolutely! God will give you time the more you obey His commands. It is a beautiful thing! Keep HIM in your sights!